Hopping into heaven – Our sweet Oreo Monroe, the black and white bunny who colored our world
The pet grief journey takes many forms, but the loss of our beloved rabbit Oreo four days ago has left a surprisingly large hole in our hearts for such a small creature. For seven wonderful years, this black and white Holland Lop with distinctive markings like his cookie namesake brought joy, companionship, and unexpected lessons about love into our family.
When my daughter Lucy brought home Oreo from the rescue center as her 10th birthday present, we had no idea how much personality could fit into a four-pound bundle of fur. Far from the cage-bound pet we expected, Oreo became a free-roaming family member who had full reign of our living room, complete with his custom bunny castle that my husband built in the corner.
Coping with small pet loss often surprises people who don’t understand the deep bonds we form with these sensitive creatures. Oreo wasn’t “just a rabbit” – he was an affectionate, intelligent companion with distinct preferences and an undeniable personality. He would thump excitedly when he heard the refrigerator open (signaling potential treats), came running when called, and would “periscope” up on his hind legs whenever someone new entered the room.
Oreo’s evening “zoomies” – those joyful, acrobatic bursts of running and jumping – could lighten even the darkest mood. He loved banana slices, head scratches, and exploring new cardboard castles we would create for him. His dislike of being picked up taught us to respect his boundaries and connect on his terms, a lesson in consent that extended beyond pet care.
As prey animals, rabbits hide illness well, which makes rabbit bereavement often sudden and unexpected. When Oreo stopped eating last week, we knew something was seriously wrong. The exotic pet veterinarian specializing in rabbit care diagnosed a severe GI blockage, and despite emergency treatment, we had to make the heartbreaking decision for humane euthanasia to prevent suffering.
Creating a meaningful pet memorial has been healing for our family. Lucy painted a garden stone with his paw prints that now marks his resting place under the apple tree, where fallen petals create a gentle blanket over his grave. We’ve found that pet loss rituals help children process grief in tangible ways that make space for both sadness and celebration of a beloved animal’s life.
To others experiencing the rainbow bridge journey with a small companion, your grief is valid. These little souls leave enormous impacts on our hearts that deserve acknowledgment and remembrance.
Born: May 2018
Crossed the Rainbow Bridge: April 9, 2025